ещё раз доброго времени суток!!!
вот кониг exim'а
root@test# cat configure
primary_hostname = mydome.ru

hide mysql_servers = localhost/exim/sqlmail/my_password

domainlist local_domains = ${lookup mysql{SELECT domain FROM domains \
                                WHERE domain='${domain}' AND \
                                (type='LOCAL' OR type='VIRTUAL')}}
#domainlist relay_to_domains = *
domainlist relay_to_domains = ${lookup mysql{SELECT domain FROM domains \
                                WHERE domain='${domain}' AND type='RELAY'}}
hostlist   relay_from_hosts = 127.0.0.1

acl_smtp_rcpt = acl_check_rcpt
acl_smtp_data = acl_check_data

qualify_domain = mydome.ru

allow_domain_literals = false
exim_user = mailnull
never_users = root:daemon:bin
host_lookup = *

#rfc1413_hosts = *
rfc1413_query_timeout = 0s

ignore_bounce_errors_after = 30m
timeout_frozen_after = 3d
freeze_tell = postmaster@test.infnet.ru
auto_thaw = 1h
#system_filter = /etc/mail/system-filter
#message_body_visible = 5000
#message_size_limit = 10M
smtp_accept_max = 50
smtp_accept_max_per_connection = 50
smtp_connect_backlog = 50
smtp_accept_max_per_host = 25
split_spool_directory = true
remote_max_parallel = 15
return_size_limit = 70k

log_selector = \
        +all_parents \
        +lost_incoming_connection \
        +received_sender \
        +received_recipients \
        +smtp_confirmation \
        +smtp_syntax_error \
        +smtp_protocol_error \
        -queue_run

begin acl

acl_check_rcpt:

  accept  hosts = :

  deny    local_parts   = ^[.] : ^.*[@%!/|]
          domains       = +local_domains

  deny    local_parts   = ^[./|] : ^.*[@%!/|] : ^.*/\\.\\./
          domains       = !+local_domains

  accept  local_parts   = postmaster
          domains       = +local_domains

#  require verify        = sender

  deny    message       = HELO/EHLO required by SMTP RFC
          condition     = ${if eq{$sender_helo_name}{}{yes}{no}}

  accept authenticated  = *

  deny    message       = Go Away! You are spammer.
          condition     = ${if match{$sender_host_name} \
                               {bezeqint\\.net|net\\.il|dialup|dsl|pool|peer|dhcp} \
                               {yes}{no}}

  deny    message       = host is listed in $dnslist_domain
          dnslists      = sbl.spamhaus.org : \
                          relays.ordb.org : \
                          opm.blitzed.org : \
                          proxies.blackholes.easynet.nl

  accept  domains       = +local_domains
          endpass
          message       = unknown user
          verify        = recipient

  accept  domains       = +relay_to_domains
          endpass
          message       = unrouteable address
          verify        = recipient

  accept  hosts         = +relay_from_hosts

  deny    message       = relay not permitted

acl_check_data:

  deny    message       = Go Away! Eat Your Spam Self!
          condition     = ${if match{$message_body} \
                               {105[-_]*51[-_]*86|778[-_]*98[-_]*94} \
                               {yes}{no}}

accept

begin routers

dnslookup:
  driver = dnslookup
  domains = +local_domains
  transport = remote_smtp
  ignore_target_hosts = 0.0.0.0 : 127.0.0.0/8
  no_more

system_aliases:
  driver = redirect
  allow_fail
  allow_defer
  data = ${lookup mysql{SELECT recipients FROM aliases \
                WHERE local_part='${local_part}' AND domain='${domain}'}}

userforward:
  driver = redirect
  allow_fail
  allow_defer
  data = ${lookup mysql{SELECT recipients FROM userforward \
                WHERE local_part='${local_part}' AND domain='${domain}'}}

mysqluser:
  driver = accept
  condition = ${if eq{} {${lookup mysql{SELECT home FROM users \
                WHERE id='${local_part}' AND mbox_host='${domain}' \
                AND active='Y'}}}{no}{yes}}
  transport = mysql_delivery

begin transports

remote_smtp:
  driver = smtp

mysql_delivery:
  driver = appendfile
  check_string = ""
  create_directory
  delivery_date_add
  directory = ${lookup mysql{SELECT CONCAT(home, "/Maildir") FROM users \
                WHERE id='${local_part}' AND mbox_host='${domain}'}}
  directory_mode = 770
  envelope_to_add
  group = mail
  maildir_format
  maildir_tag = ,S=$message_size
  message_prefix = ""
  message_suffix = ""
  mode = 0600
  quota = ${lookup mysql{SELECT quota FROM users \
                WHERE id='${local_part}' AND mbox_host='${domain}'}{${value}M}}
  quota_size_regex = S=(\d+)$
  quota_warn_threshold = 75%
  return_path_add

address_pipe:
  driver = pipe
  return_output

address_file:
  driver = appendfile
  delivery_date_add
  envelope_to_add
  return_path_add

address_reply:
  driver = autoreply

begin retry

#*                      quota
*                      *           F,2h,15m; G,16h,1h,1.5; F,4d,6h

begin rewrite

begin authenticators

auth_plain:
  driver = plaintext
  public_name = PLAIN
  server_condition = ${lookup mysql{SELECT id FROM users \
                     WHERE id = '${quote_mysql:${local_part:$2}}'\
                    AND mbox_host = '${quote_mysql:${domain:$2}}'\
                    AND passwd = '${quote_mysql:$3}'\
                    AND active = 'Y'}{yes}{no}}
  server_prompts = :
  server_set_id = $2

auth_login:
  driver = plaintext
  public_name = LOGIN
  server_condition = ${lookup mysql{SELECT id FROM users \
                        WHERE id = '${quote_mysql:${local_part:$1}}' \
                        AND mbox_host = '${quote_mysql:${domain:$1}}' \
                        AND passwd = '${quote_mysql:$2}' \
                        AND active = 'Y'}{yes}{no}}
  server_prompts = Username:: : Password::
  server_set_id = $1

auth_cram_md5:
  driver = cram_md5
  public_name = CRAM-MD5
  server_secret = ${lookup mysql{SELECT passwd FROM users \
                        WHERE id = '${quote_mysql:${local_part:$1}}' \
                        AND mbox_host = '${quote_mysql:${domain:$1}}' \
                        AND active = 'Y'}{$value}fail}
server_set_id = $1

делаем
[root@alf ~]# telnet mydomen.ru 25
Trying x.x.x.x...
Connected to mydomen.ru (x.x.x.x).
Escape character is '^]'.
220 mydomen.ru ESMTP Exim 4.61 Wed, 10 May 2006 11:59:26 +0400
ehlo jurinva
250-mydomen.ru Hello jurinva [80.82.80.4]
250-SIZE 52428800
250-PIPELINING
250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN CRAM-MD5
250 HELP
auth plain
334
anVyaW52YUB0ZXN0LmluZm5ldC5ydQBqdXJpbnZhQHRlc3QuaW5mbmV0LnJ1AG15LXBhc3M=
235 Authentication succeeded
mail from: username@mydomen.ru
250 OK
rcpt to: username@mail.ru
250 Accepted
data
354 Enter message, ending with "." on a line by itself
Subject: zxcvb
asldfkj
al;sdkfj
lasdfjk
.
250 OK id=1FdjcS-000Isr-Tp
quit

однако
root@test# cat rejectlog | grep 11:35:21
2006-05-10 11:35:21 H=f22.mail.ru [194.67.57.55] F=<username@mail.ru> rejected RCPT <username@mydomen.ru>: Unrouteable address

кто нибудь может подсказать что не так?
если требуется содержание mysql таблиц? могу дополнительно привести